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Dear Family and Friends and Readers,
As we wish all of you the happiest of holidays and some of you a Merry Christmas, Here is a look at our news:
The Peeks seem ever busy. Thank God we are retired because neither of us can imagine how we’d find time to work! Here’s some of what we’ve been doing since Easter:
Spring took us to Lincoln for another OLLI course and the chance as well to record my Breezes on Their Way to Being Winds for Talking Books. When I subbed for Fr. McClure in Alliance in May, we were guests of Merle Hayward and his daughter Holly and family at lunch and so enjoyed telling him that the book was now available to him.
The highlight of the year—Rowan’s graduation from Cedar Bluff’s High School in a wonderful and personal ceremony, with two scholarships for Mid-Plains Community College where he is currently in the welding program taking metallurgy and blueprints along with actual shop work. Friends and family joined in a super celebration. So glad friends Ken and Linda Anderson, Rosemary Northwall, Sandra Squires, and Susanne Titus could come.
Cather Spring Conference in Red Cloud was one of the best in recent years as we welcomed Nancy Savery to the pump organ where Barbara Sprague played so faithfully for years. Nancy “soldiered” through a sudden bloody nose! Which fit right into the conference theme: “Both Bitter and Sweet”: Cather, Literature, and the Great War.” The homily was based on the words of peace-making in hymns that were spawned by the horrors of the Civil War and Great War…and then promptly forgotten in the increased militarism during and following WWII. The Great War is one of Nancy Peek’s special interests, so she particularly enjoyed the conference. Chuck also reviewed some submissions for the Willa Cather Newsletter & Review during the year.
We joined our friends Stan and Carol Dart, Jim and Cathy Ganz, Mitch and Katie Bean, Mike and Becky Evers for two of the MONA Sounds of Summer programs—nearly froze through the first, sweltered through the second, but managed spreads that celebrated baseball one night and jazz the other, heard some great music, and saw a number of friends. Later in the year we joined the same group plus Ed and Mary Berglund to wish the Beans well on their move to Omaha.
Nancy and I only managed to get out for the Saturday morning session of the Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival where I joined Gene Morris and Ben Nelson for the stories of Ben’s service as Governor and Senator. We got to stay long enough to hear Andy Irwin tell a funny and pointed story set in the south but championing a religion of grace rather than of rigid moral pronouncements…believe me, that was a welcome relief from a lot of the bilge spouted during a long election campaign!
In mid-summer Nancy and I enjoyed two Sundays at Church of the Holy Spirit, Bellevue, where I subbed for Fr. Tom Jones during part of his sabbatical (even as we Facebook-followed Fr. Ernesto Medina’s inspiring pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela, where he was joined his last week by Fr. John Schaeffer). Each week I stayed over to celebrate a Wednesday mid-week Eucharist followed by a Bible study, so between the Sundays and Wednesdays we got to spend some time with the Ptomey’s in Cedar Bluffs.
Nancy’s annual visit to Dr. Allward, the iris-specialist at the University of Iowa Hospitals, went very well and afforded us the opportunity for dinner with Fr. Mel Schlachter and his sister Elaine and her husband Larry. On the way home we stopped in Waterloo to see George Day and his son—wonderful visit.
Oxford, Mississippi drew us for the Faulkner Conference and another gig doing a Teaching Faulkner session with Terrell Tebbetts (who has dug up some distant cousins of mine in Batesville, Arkansas where my mother’s mother, Lena Hail Urie, was from) and enjoying the other session offered by Jim Carothers and Theresa Towner and a special session by Brian McDonald. Love the place and conference and friends there (Grayson Schick, Jennie Joiner, Colby Kullman, and John Lowe), especially this year a wonderful brunch hosted by Dale and Ann Abadie. But always glad to pull into the drive of Marty Townsend and Clark Swisher in Columbia Missouri for a stop on the way home.
Just time to do our laundry and pack our car, get in an overnight with John and Katy Hall in Davenport, and then head for a month in Milwaukee at Prospect and Brady and near the Peeks. There, I spent a good deal of each day preparing to teach the History of the Episcopal Church this fall at the Bishop Kemper School for Ministry (BKSM). I agreed to teach only if we could examine the history to find times we have best found our own identity and purpose and thus lit a fire that shed both light and warmth. That meant, however, mixing and matching what I could extract from standard histories, so it kept me busy. We enjoy our chances to be with George’s inlaws, the Bruss family, and we also enjoyed a daily set of Yoga/Pilates/Tai Chi exercises usually on the grass near Lake Michigan—which we sometimes undermined with coffee and rolls at Colectivo. (We’ve kept up the coffee and rolls–now if we only had the resolve to keep up the exercise routine all year long.)
Returned to Kearney in time to celebrate Steve Buttress’s 75th with Jan Weber, Jerry and Janet Fox, Clint and Pat Jones, Galen and Marilyn Hadley, Stan and Carol Dart, and to teach a fall course in the Parables for our Senior College and for Nancy to culminate her summer’s work in soliciting panelists and planning the panel for our World Affairs Conference that focused on what we might be able to do together for immigrants and other new populations. [Nebraska now leads the nation in welcoming the new wave of new populations.] One respondent’s conference evaluation said it was the best panel of the conference and it opened the way for lots of subsequent contacts between churches and agencies. Bonnie Payne and Michelle Warren helped set up the panel and Lutheran Family Services, the Diocese of Grand Island, First Presbyterian-Kearney, Evangelical Free-Kearney, St. Luke’s Episcopal-Kearney, and Kearney’s Jubilee Center all took part.
A side benefit came from a conversation at the opening reception at Mike Anderson’s Cunningham’s Journal with our paper editor Mike Konz and his wife Pilar and a woman on the international studies staff at UNK, Yao Zheng and her husband Alex—that conversation led all of us plus International Studies Director Michael Stopford and his wife Elizabeth to a “from the Chinese menu” dinner at Hunan’s—the closest we’ve come to the taste of authentic Chinese food since being in China a decade ago and a very fun gathering.
I’ll let others here speak to our feelings about the election (see another blog), but part of what kept me sane was offering a workshop on 12-Step spirituality at our Diocesan Annual Council (based in Richard Rohr’s Breathing Under Water, which the Bishop kindly bought for the first 25 participants) and teaching my class in Topeka for BKSM—which had the added pleasure of a thoroughly enjoyable drive down and back with Dean Craig Loya and lunch after the closing session with him and Theresa Houser, a truly engaged Christian enrolled in the program from Nebraska, along with Greg Burke of St. Mark’s Hastings and Kim Culp of CHS Bellevue. The only bad part was getting out of Topeka so late I couldn’t make the afternoon of Fr. Jason Emerson’s music to which he’d so kindly invited us.
Other occasions for serenity and thanksgiving included both speaking and hearing Fr. Jim speak at the Tuesday Night Workshop in Grand Island, always preceded by burgers and fries at Pam’s with Rita, Jolene, Tom, and Bonnie. George, Bill, Mike, Erich, Steve, and others are often at the TNW as well. Over the years, these nights have been like arriving at an oasis for us.
Another great pleasure: I drove down to Lawrence, picked up Jim Carothers (just returned from being in Victoria with Bev and Cathleen), and we drove together to Cape Girardeau for a Faulkner and Hemingway Conference. We started by following Jim’s adage that “a journey of a thousand miles begins at Arthur Bryant’s,” pursued that thought through a tour of Jim’s old haunts in St. Louis that included Rigassi’s for a wonderful Italian lunch, and then dinner at the conference with Bob and Kaye Hamblin. Highlight of the conference: Jennie Joiner’s panel on teaching the two great writers (with Susan Marshall, Emily Bobo), Bob’s guided tour of the new L. D. Brodsky poetry collection, Barry Hudek’s ‘Global, Regional, Local’ panel (with Han Qiqun and Francoise Buisson), as well as the chance to put in a bid for a future conference on Faulkner and Cather. (Or perhaps the highlight was the panel I couldn’t stop laughing through while wanting to suggest that someone actually read Faulkner and Hemingway!)
That trip, too, had its dessert! I was invited to dinner in Lawrence at Terry and Anita Faddis’s. Anita was the first person to befriend me when we moved to McCook, became at times a girl-friend, and was a “make it with wool” and cherry pie baking champion. I had only met Terry once before and hadn’t seen Anita for 50 years, but over another of her cherry pies we picked up our friendship right off the bat. So great to see her again and get acquainted with Terry.
Nancy continues with her weekly Yoga and her prayer group at St. Luke’s. I continue to belong to Torch Club and began my three-year term on the Nebraska Library Commission, enjoying a lunch with Molly Fisher after one of the meetings. Had the privilege of reading a couple of poems from Breezes at the Center for the Book’s Celebration of Books where Breezes won the 2016 Nebraska Book Award for Poetry, hosted by NLC’s outstanding Director, Rod Wagner, his very fine staff person, Mary Jo Ryan, and emceed by State Poet Twyla Hansen who, together with another fine poet, Marge Saiser, deservedly received the Mildred Bennett Award.
Only got a few words in with Ted Kooser, but got to meet Amy Plettner, a fine poet, and Chigozie Obioma, Man Booker Prize finalist. I’m reading her Undoing Orion’s Belt and his The Fisherman now. Watching the PBS show about the Durrell family in Corfu has prompted Nancy to pick up the Alexandrian Quartet.
Read again in November at the Frank Museum here with Rick Marlatt and then led a book group discussion in Grand Island on poetry in general and my book in particular…wonderful lunch with some fine, intelligent women, many of whom we had come to enjoy while living in Grand Island a few years ago. I was invited by Liz Baxter, possibly the human being outside of family I’ve known the longest in this world—somewhere there is a photo of two little infants in a crib in Denver, one me, the other her. Our host for a marvelous lunch served by Riverside from recipes of members of the group was Pam Price, and our extra treat was two tickets from Pam and Hank for the Nebraska/Maryland football game. Proud of Nebraska for playing every senior not on the injured list for their last home game.
While I am being proud of things, let me add that we are very proud of our Presiding Bishop, Michael Curry, for showing up at Standing Rock and shoring up the Native American led protest against the Dakota Access Pipeline. Bismark, largely white, protested the pipe-line for endangering its water, so the company moved it where it could endanger the water of the tribal lands nearby! The protesters received vicious assaults by outsourced “police”–people protecting their land and sacred grounds were gassed and beaten. Bishop Curry was just the right person to go, preach, celebrate, and support. The United Thank Offering is building some small houses for the winter there and Bold Nebraska built some small energy barns as well. The Army Corp of Engineers finally denied the easement to the pipeline company, the camp may scale down or disband, but the structures will remain should we have to return.
As I wrote part of this, the Ptomeys were about to arrive for a celebration of Brody’s 14th birthday before they made their way to Holyoke to give thanks with Ray and Jan Ptomey. Brody’s treat: the Broncos/Chiefs game at Mile Hi.
Closing out the year with a small part (Scrooge, of course) in the Crane River Theatre Christmas program, stopping in at the holiday soiree in honor of Javier and Sammy Fox, a housewarming for Bobbie and Rachel Fox, and very enjoyable dinner theater at Kearney Community Theatre with Galen and Marilyn Hadley for A Child’s Christmas in Wales. Shortly we head for Milwaukee for Christmas!
Mostly, of course, we are thankful for our family—about whom some news:
The PEEKS
Huck (Henry), turned 3, can tackle some of the neighborhood teens, and must sit still sometimes, though we never got a siting of that, a shark for Endaris Park Halloween and about to be potty-trained (and I quote) ‘come hell or high water’;
*Greta (Margaret), 5, Rey for the Endaris Park Halloween bash—perfect personality match! we got to see her in her tap/ballet class where she shows great grace and energy and sometimes even attention;
Willie (Will the Thrill), just now 8, who closed out his last stint on the Toledo Mud Hens with great stats in every category and then got student of the month in his grade at Mt. Olive school; (Ninja, of course!)
*Laura Grace, whose new job puts her in charge of compliance and quality control at OnCourse Learning, and who, with the help of an occasional glass of wine, still manages the ups and downs and spills of three children 3-8 and a husband, namely—
George—continuing as a partner with Crivello and Carlson law firm in Milwaukee, President of the school board for Mt. Olive school, teaching paralegals at Carthage in Kenosha, and often heard to say “as I was preparing my brief…”
The PTOMEYS
Brody (#72 on the Jersey, George’s number we’d all thought permanently retired), just now 14—an all-around champ who can boast about sports, academics, a sense of humor, one ratty set of Husker p.j.s, and a super personality;
Rowan,19, whose last Facebook post was with a very attractive Baillie Simmerman, and who just completed his physical and aptitude tests for joining the National Guard and for half of whose vast store of weapons we were for a while the armory (no fears about the 2nd amendment in our family—though a few for the 1st!), and who continues to enjoy the welding program at Midplains Community College;
*Noelle, ageless, who continues to direct our Diocese’s Camp Canterbury, serve as Senior Warden of St. Augustine’s, Elkhorn, where Fr. Ben Varnum is the new Rector; this year she has helped develop a new one-day program of fellowship, fun, spirituality, and service called GROW for our teens; she also occasionally helps with parish discernment processes and stewardship drives;
Harlan, whose work as Superintendent of Schools at Cedar Bluffs earned him a spot in the Fremont paper’s recognition of the year’s “Pathfinders,” and whose school sports a new shop and art wing, bus barn, concession stand, and playground; Harlan is taking the family to Nashville for the Nebraska-Tennesse Bowl Game.
*Special thoughts this year for our girls—you all put cracks in the glass ceiling!
“Set ‘em up for the whole damned crew/Say a prayer for your absent friends” from Goodnight Ruby—more than the usual number of losses in the RIP section this year:
Of our friends and acquaintances:
Tabu Abu, beloved family snail, gift of Brody, named for my ‘Men in Tights’ fictional husband
Judy Amber, active in Diocese of Nebraska outreach
Helen Amsden, one of the original “life-project” deacons in our Diocese
Mary Jean Andrews, communicant of Holy Trinity, Lincoln, and early supporter of St. Monica’s
Agnes Ayoub, mother of friend and writer George Ayoub
Joseph Barker, much-loved father of our much-loved Bishop
Stevie Baxter, long-time St. Stephen’s acolyte, trained by my dad, who never let being a Downs Syndrome child stand in the way of serving at 8:00 a.m. mass—with a smile
Maxine Borley, long-time family friend, communicant of St. Mark’s, Hastings
Edmund Browning, former Presiding Bishop of the Episcopal Church
Lois Carlson, long-time member of my old “home” recovery group
Kendrick Child+, one time college chaplain at Boston U
Phyllis Fahrenbruch, veteran of KCT productions, onstage and off
Duncan Gray Jr. former Rector of St. Peter’s Oxford, former Bishop of Mississippi, Civil Rights hero
LuAnn Haller, mother of long-time friends, Linda Clark and Nancy Towne
Kathleen Higgins, our sister-in-law’s cousin
Elmer Holzrichter, artist and teacher in UNK’s Art Department
Chris Hunnicutt, beloved English teacher at KHS who did Noelle a great favor once
Hazel Jordan, Methodist minister and co-Cursillista
Joel Lundak+, college class-mate and fellow priest
Delores McCallum, long-time widow of former rector of All Saint’s, Omaha
Sally McDearman, Nancy’s cousin
Dorothy Minister, widow of Marshal Minister, one of dad’s old seminary buddies and long-time friend from Colorado
Ormonde Plater, instrumental in the restoration of the Deaconate
Fred Prellwitz, dentist, scoutmaster (Julie Dennis’s father-in-law)
Mick Ross, hard to imagine a heaven where Mick wouldn’t be at home
Chris Rundstrom, friend of our son and daughter and our family
Mel Schumacher, much beloved drama teacher at KHS
Chuck Wahl, UNL a couple of years ahead of us, who married our friend Jan from the Sandhills, my boon companion during my internship at St. Mary’s Bassett
Paul Welter, counselor to the counselors of our region
Click Westin, 12-step sponsor to too many to number
Sam Whiteman, blissful benefactor of the “divine nine”
Lorma Wiebe, whose good will and good heart will be greatly missed, whom Nancy called “one of the joys of living in Kearney”
And notable celebrities:
Edward Albee, playwright of and for our times
Mose Allison, still singing, different choir
Muhammed “Sting Like a Bee” Ali (Cassius Clay) the 2nd Brown Bomber, who loved justice and mercy and walked humbly with his God
Kenneth Bailey, scriptural exegete, many years at American University, Beirut
Fr. Daniel Berrigan, brave soul of the ‘60s, Roman Catholic priest
Fidel Castro
Leonard Cohen—Hallelujah!
Florence Henderson, think Brady Bunch
Gordie Howe, his last shot at the goal
Merle Haggard, different chorus, different hymn
Tom Hayden, counter-culture advocate of the ‘60s
Sam Foltz, NU Cornhusker punter
John Glenn, a hero for our times
Gwen Ifill, we’ll miss your weekly review!
Jaws (not the shark)
Melvin Laird, former Secretary of Defense
Arnold Palmer, who beat par right up to the end
Billy Paul (him and Mrs. Jones)
Shimon Peres, who did more to secure Israel than anyone but who, at great cost to him, would not sell out its reason for being
Janet Reno, former Attorney General of the USA
Doris Roberts, the sometimes exception to “everybody”
Andrew Sachs, Fawlty Tours factotum from ‘Barthelona’
Morley Safer, his “60 Minutes” are over
John Saunders, witty and exuberant sports announcer
Fred Shuttleworth, Civil Rights leader
Pat Summitt, famed basketball coach
Milt Tenopir, McCook High coach who went on to be line coach for the Huskers
Alan Thicke, experience the last Growing Pain
Grant Tinker, former head of NBC who gave us Mary Tyler Moore
The Man from U.N.C.L.E (Robert Vaughan)
Elie Wiesel, moral light, holocaust survivor
Gene Wilder, comic genius
May you all find light and life in the joys of this season of holidays,
Chuck and Nancy
Accompanying photos: Rowan with us taken at his graduation in May 2016, Brody keeping alive the family #72, and “three of a kind,” aka Willie, Greta, and Huck