Charity in a Time of Malice

Charity in a Time of Malice

By Charles Peek*

Martin Marty, once America’s foremost religious historian, tells of a very precise, even precious German scholar who once produced a rather large tome on the flora and fauna of Iceland.  In it, you come upon a chapter entitled, “The snakes of Iceland.”  Under that heading it reads, “There are no snakes in Iceland.”

The world is in fact full of categories that don’t exist, over which we lavish much more attention.  We have a penchant for dividing up ideas, people, landscapes–just about whatever attaches itself to our prejudices–dividing them up into no-fly zones, thinking ourselves safe if the chasm between us and the next zone is great enough.

I spoke once to a civic group and asked them to note how seldom religious sects were founded on scriptural passages that were clear, such as the injunction to love our neighbors as ourselves, and how many were founded on the most obscurantist passages anyone could ever light on. Apparently, I touched a chord because I was never invited back!

When I was young, a matter those who know me will have to take on faith, it wasn’t uncommon to drive down a city street and there see a sign reading: Quiet–Hospital Zone.  No matter how far down that street your drove, you would never see a sign saying you were leaving the hospital zone and could now whoop it up.  Like the twilight zone, once you entered, you were never sure if or when you had left it.

When it comes to how society divides up our world, the situation is much more dangerous.  Social zones or categories exist with a vengeance all their own until some activist challenges them. Many of us Comp/Rhetoric teachers helped mitigate or even end the once common practice in schools of placing students in tracks, a practice that left some students scarred for life and others, more fortunate, with the task of healing their wounds before they could move on; many parents had to go to bat for their children’s very visible abilities that, nonetheless, didn’t receive validation from the tests and tracking.

Other zones, other divides affect the nation as a whole: racial divides, unequal pay for equal work, religious boundaries…all have left their mark on the nation’s struggle to live up to its own ideals of liberty and justice for all.

I look at such zones, such divides, as terribly costly to our well-being as a people, and that look offer a challenge for our future. Beware, the challenge is for a life-time task, so, though it won’t matter much where we are in life, it will matter whether we are stuck where we are or are up to a challenge, whether our hearts and minds are large enough and open enough, a fit meditation as we come to yet another Thanksgiving season.

At the close of the Civil War, the most singular event in American History, America was then, too, a distinctly divided nation.  The South had lost a battle for what it regarded its homeland, the system of chattel slavery that was the underpinning of its economy was in disarray, the God to whom they had prayed for victory had, they felt, given them instead defeat, and they were an occupied territory.  It would not truly feel patriotic again, in the American sense, until its involvement in World War I, and even then, continued to feel keenly the scorn of the north. (I am leaving aside for the moment my distinct feeling that the nation may today look very much as if The South had won the war!)

The North, too, had experienced a challenge to its values in the threat of the dissolution of the union. It knew the sting of enemy attacks, seen most vividly in the burial grounds such as Gettysburg, that began to dominate the landscape.  It would not be able to count the enormous cost of battle and battle production until mass production altered forever its own economic and political institutions.

Each side had sincerely believed it was right; there was no common ground on which to overcome their differences; each side numbered its fair share of heroes and wisdom figures, whom the other side regarded as villains and traitors.

Today, with the resuscitation of the lies of the Lost cause, this has become much harder to grant; nevertheless, there were honorable and learned women and men on both sides, champions and defenders of their own causes, who, though their cause was itself often unjust, were in other regards intelligent and honorable people.

My point is simply that all that learning, all that wisdom, all that bravery and integrity…among the highest qualities we can attribute to anyone, to any people…left the nation divided and in peril. And perhaps this should not surprise: Jesus was not crucified by the worst elements of his times but by the leading exemplars of ethics and culture. Our tragedy stems not from what is done by people at their worst but how badly things can go wrong even when we are led by people at their best.  Even at our best, we often come up short-sighted or blind.

Then came Abraham Lincoln and his Second Inaugural Address.

One might think of Lincoln in this way: of all the American thinkers who were politicians possibly none was greater than Jefferson; of all our politicians who were thinkers perhaps none was greater than Lincoln.

Lincoln was the only person to serve as President who did not claim some allegiance to any organized religion, and he stands among our most astute theologians.  The Second Inaugural Address is often called the greatest single piece of American discourse.** Here is what Lincoln dared to say of the two parties to the Civil War in that address:

“Both read the same Bible, and pray to the same God; and each invokes His aid against the other . . . but let us judge not that we be not judged.  The prayers of both could not be answered; that of neither has been answered fully.  The Almighty has his own purposes . . . “the judgments of the Lord, are true and righteous altogether.”

With malice toward none; with charity for all; with firmness in the right, as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in; to bind up the nation’s wounds; to care for him who shall have borne the battle, and his widow, and his orphan—to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace, among ourselves, and with all nations.”

Lincoln rose above the divisions, even divisions in which he had been a participant, to find not just those ideas that would establish a party, an idea, a position but to seek those ideas that would bridge the differences, replace the hatred with common ground, draw the two opposed ideas into one common ideal.

It is ominous that many students of America find our current divisions comparable to nothing in our history so much as those of the Civil War.  Pro-life and pro-choice lash out at each other with venom and sometimes violence. Pro-choice people do not hear the sometimes-sincere regard for the sacredness of life on the part of Pro-Lifers, and the Pro-Life party is blind to the very real ways in which Pro-Choice supported women’s and family health efforts have been the only thing to actually reduce the number of abortions.

Current political decisions widen the gap between rich and poor creating bitter animosities and further divisions.  The series of conflicts in the Middle East has surfaced enormous differences of philosophy regarding our place in the world and how it is best protected and exercised.

Today, no side lacks for advocates and defenders and, with bigoted ruffians on the rise, it has become increasingly harder for us to grant any good will or good sense on the part of those who feel differently than we do. Neither side of any issue lacks for supporters who seem blind to some of their bedfellows’ worst behaviors. And for all those reasons, the nation seems bent on being increasingly divided.

What, then, is the role of an American citizen? What would it mean to be a true patriot? What does it mean as the French Prime Minister recently urged to distinguish patriotism from nationalism? Would it not be to rise to the example of Lincoln who became more than his affiliations?

Note, not less than: not fearful of committing to a course; but more than: wise and courageous enough to reach even beyond his own beliefs for reconciliation, to envision a higher ground on which all might stand.  I think we do wrong to be satisfied simply to understand and defend something that now exists.  We desperately need instead those who will help create the way of looking at things that does not yet exist but in the light of which much potential good that now exists will be seen from new perspectives.

Whatever our beliefs, we should by all means be true to them. But we should also be asking ourselves not simply how we can be staunch and true to our principles but how we can better live with malice toward none and charity toward all.  Whatever our convictions, can we find those greater ideas that will make our current convictions seem, whether right or wrong for their times, eventually relics of history.

The challenge: forge the new link, design the new bridge, ignite the new spark of the imagination.

For good or ill, all of us contribute to the writing of a new chapter in the history of the world.  Will we allow our generations to pass and find that all we have written is a chapter entitled The Snakes of Iceland?  The world seems today to have driven into the hospital zone; can we not use our minds, our hearts, our lives to lead us out.

Happy Thanksgiving

Kearney, Nebraska

*Oh, by the way, if you wonder where we’ve been heading recently, some of the remarks here I resurrected from a talk I gave 15 years ago. With very little substantive change, they still seem relevant today and that is shocking. More to the point, however, is that, granted that bad behavior has made reaching across the aisle more problematic, the thrust of my appeal to find a way forward has, if anything, gained more urgency.

** Of course, his most famous address is the Gettysburg Address, delivered appropriately for Thanksgiving on November 19, 1863.

All Saints Day

 

2018 All Saints Blog

                                                                   By Charles Peek

All Saints Cathedral, Milwaukee, reredos

    High Altar at All Saint’s Cathedral, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where we have worshiped

Nina McConigly, writer, activist, and one-time fellow acolyte with Matthew Shepherd, included two moving quotes in her talk for the 2018 Spring Cather Conference in Red Cloud, Nebraska. Let me preface this season’s necrology with those quotes, with many thanks for McConigly’s life and witness.

The first is from the poet Nayyirah Waheed: “My mother was my first country, the first place I ever lived.”

And the second is from Moshin Hamid from an interview in The Nation: “I think that if we can recognize the universality of the migration experience and the universality of the refuge experience—that those of us who have never moved are also migrants and refugees—then the space for empathy opens up. Every single human being is a refugee from their childhood. The time of our childhood is done from us. And it hurts, and it’s devastating, actually. Where are those people who were alive in those days? And that means we can recognize the refugee not as some strange other person who’s had a weird experience of crossing the Mediterranean on a boat, or crawling under barbed wire to Texas, but instead we see somebody who’s had an experience that emotionally reminds us of our own experience. If you never leave the home you’re born in, the experience of life as you get older is a migration.”

With those thoughts in mind—pertinent to our human and our national situation, may the souls remembered here rest in peace and may light perpetual shine upon them.+

Close friends and colleagues:

Lynne Bacon, one of the women ordained in the first group to be raised up when our Diocese restored the historic diaconate, out of All Saint’s, Omaha

Bill Berryman, father of one of our daughter’s close high school friends

Gerry Bowker, friends of the family for many years—they joined Chuck’s parents in nurturing us through our first years of marriage

Jan Bystrom, for years our neighbor on 5th Avenue and a block monitor for the Pioneer Neighborhood Association

Peter Clark, he and Barbara were two of our closest friends during our doctoral programs, a friendship which was instantly renewable whenever we came together again; one of my China classes was in American Theater—almost all of which I knew about it came from Pete’s classes in modern drama at the old Lincoln Community Playhouse; we stood in as godparents for a couple who could not come to Lincoln for their first child’s baptism. The honors that came to him in death were richly deserved

Don Diers, former parishioner at St. Stephen’s, Grand Island, friend of our parents

Tom Dredla, former parishioner at Calvary, Hyannis, long-time grocer to the region, fisherman

Mary Forsythe, Deacon of Church of the Resurrection, one of the original class of deacons when Fr. John Nelson (see Sid below) and I helped Bishop Warner restore the diaconal order in the Diocese

Ernie Gearhart, also one of the early Deacons in our Diocese, serving at St. James, Fremont

Nan Graf, parishioner at St. Mark’s, Lincoln, and one-time wife of the architect of St. Mark’s

Jean Jorgensen, daughter of Dusty and Roma, long-time friend of our kids and the Park kids, who with her husband JR ran the PlayPen

Jim Keene, husband of long-time Cather and MONA board member, Ruth Keene.

Nancy Kirk, long associated with the unique Tri-Faith Initiative; a shame our Diocese lost many of its resources so that our continued full participation in this mission we began could not continue

Don Lackey, former UNK colleague, chair of HYPER

Carol Lynch, mother of Noelle’s friend Jenny

Byron Moore, former parishioner at St. Stephen’s, Rod Moore’s real brother and my fraternity brother

Zdenka (Sid) Nelson, wife of Fr. John Nelson, mother of the family with whom George stayed his first semester at Brownell-Talbot

Ralph Ritzen, father of Ann Knipping, Lutheran pastor, and a very nice gentleman

Dennis Roper, Beth’s husband and Gina’s stepdad

Bob Schultz, owner of the Peppermill (now the Alley Rose) restaurant, part of the Chances “R” family; Bob at his restaurant and I at my parish took the risk of launching building programs in the middle of the early ‘80’s ag recession, and we shared moments of shoring each other up in good times and bad

Mike Schuyler, former UNK colleague, chair of the history department, Dean of the College of Natural and Social Sciences, and a kind and gentle friend, husband of Sue, father of Emily and Adam

Ellen State, friend of many, chorister at First Presbyterian Church, and supporter of good things including Senior College and Habitat for Humanity

Betsy Warner, wife of Don Warner, former parishioners of St. Stephen’s, Grand Island, where Don became one of the Diocese’s first Deacons

Ron Wiley, priest of the Diocese of Nebraska; Ron succeeded Chuck’s dad at St. Mark’s on the Campus, Lincoln, where he presented Chuck for and preached at his ordination, baptized our son George, and was instrumental in shaping Chuck’s ministry

Vince Wright, former neighbor and fine photographer, whose curious mind took him often to Senior College classes by day and UNK basketball of an evening, even after MS forced early retirement and difficulty getting places.

Wiley and Peek

With Fr. Ron Wiley at the time he received the Bishop’s Cross award at Annual Council

Public figures and those of some celebrity: 

Kofi Annan, former UN Secretary General, a peacemaker and, so, blessed

Anthony Bourdain, traveler and raconteur who inspired many to adventure, making his last trip

Dennis Claridge, star quarterback for Bob Devany’s 1963 Orange Bowl championship Cornhuskers

Adrian Cronauer, gone to that Good Morning with Robin Williams

Aretha Franklin, soul sister

Carl Kassell, living on in countless answering machine messages

Margot Kidder, aka Lois Lane

Milos Forman, who has now flown the cuckoo nest!

Sam Hamill—poet, translator, and Founding Editor of Copper Canyon Press

Thomas Keating, Roman Priest of whom his student Richard Rohr said he had practiced a lifetime being present to the presence of Presence

John McCain, with whom I often disagreed but whom I almost always, if the name Palin doesn’t come up, respected

V. S. Naipaul, Nobel Prize Winner for Literature

Burt Reynolds, no more dueling banjos, no more late alimony

Philip Roth, American novelist, novelist of America (see Wolfe)

Neil Simon, one of Broadway’s preeminent lights

Kate Spade—in the bag for good this time

Ruth Thone—writer and teacher, thoughtful wife of a thoughtless governor (my how history keeps repeating itself hereabouts)

Tom Wolfe—himself a “man in full,” and whose Bonfire of the Vanities is somehow overlooked in many “favorite book” lists (see Roth).

This has been a year for memories: When I “read” for orders (the tutorial route instead of seminary), my four tutors were Frs. Marshall Minister, Clyde Whitney, Ron Wiley, and Fred Muller. As I sat in the choir pew from where I could read the Prayers of the People at Ron’s funeral, I found himself staring at the memorial window dedicated to Fred and Mary Muller; and as we attended the #DIONEB Annual Council, we were graced by an extraordinarily fine reading from the last chapter of the Book of Job by Rae Whitney, Clyde’s widow, and all sang her hymn written for the Diocese’s Sesquicentennial. At the same council, Dean Loya and I shared stories about Marshall.  Interesting that all this should come up at about the same time. The age-old question remains part of our human condition: Ubi Sunt?

Belfast Cathedral baptismal font

Baptismal Font, entry into the Communion of the Saints, Belfast Cathedral, Northern Ireland 

                                                                    Kearney, Nebraska

Next blog: Thanksgiving time